PROMPTuesday: Friends

Tuesday, June 2, 2009


I'm fortunate to have lots of close friends. The many new people I've met through blogging, friends I've known since grade school, and some since high school and college. Today's PROMPTuesday from Deb is to write about a friend:

"Do you have a friend who makes you laugh, a guaranteed good time? Write about this friend. Tell us a funny memory, something he or she said, or some goofball thing you did together."


It would take me many blog posts to tell you about my friends Amy and Amber. I met Amy in fifth grade and Amber sophomore year of high school. Amy still lives in our hometown and I try to get together with her whenever we go back to visit my mom. Amber's sister lives in San Diego and I see her when she comes down to visit. I saw both of them a few weeks ago at our first adult sleep over (not like THAT! well, maybe a little).

There were cocktails, a little breaking and entering and cleavage sniffing (let your imaginations chew on that!).

Anyway, when I saw the PROMPTuesday topic for this week I immediately thought of my high school year book and all the things Amy and Amber wrote in it.

From Amy: "Melvin, I will never, ever forget all the good times we had... Conejo Cowboys (with that BABE R (Let's Smurf 2, 3,4), Chasing JH around town, Conejo Valley Days (the more you show, the faster you go!), getting jobs together, having scream sessions at Foster's, Los Tantos Favoritos, visiting T at the Red Onion... Geez, there's so much we've done! Excuse me, is this yours? Does it fly? La, la, la Prin-cess Bride!"


From Amber (who wrote one sentance along the top of the page for 30 pages): "Junior year was a blast but this year, WOAH BABY! We've had some record breaking experiences. I'll never forget our math chats. You've taught me so much. Not just about the nasty stuff, but you made me really take a look at me. I'm very happy for you and Phil (Regis, Philopean). I'm glad we took the plunge into Life Skills [class] together!"


None of that means anything to you. Most of the things we find hilarious with friends leave everyone else scratching their heads. But to me it represents good times, great memories and pee your pants laughter (see adult weekend above).The fact that I can read those words, look through my pictures and scrapbooks and instantly go back to that time and start laughing all over again is a true testament to how much these two mean to me.


We've been through high school crushes, first boyfriends, crappy jobs, losing our virginity, college stress, sending friends off to the military, marriage and divorce, pregnancy and babies and anything and everything in between. We've laughed, cried, been drunk and danced together (sometimes on tables). I love them like sisters and I'm so glad I have them in my life. Homie and Bub, thank you so much for all the laughs we've had and those yet to come!

9 comments:

  1. holding back the tears...sniff...you rock, Mel! You know I love ya like crazy and I'm so happy we're still hanging tight(well, most of us is still tight!)after all these years! You will always be family to me and I'm thrilled you are now part of my SD family as well! Many great times await us...no doubt!!! Love you! :)

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  2. Lady! I AM in tears! Gosh, so many memories up there. I can't even find the words to tell you how reading your blog made me feel. I am truly touched... I am elated to have found forever sisters in you LADIES!! :)

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  3. This reminds me so much of my best friend from high school. Our senior note to each other was such an inside joke that it took us 3 days to figure it out--and we were the ones that wrote it.

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  4. God, the pictures are perfect. What a great bond you guys have - it just shows. And what a fun fun read this was.

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  5. Ah, sweetness. I remember that kind of stuff and wish those friends were still around...

    Lucky you*

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  6. Fabulous post, Mel! I'm impressed with how tight you guys have stayed...friendships run the gamut but clearly you guys are lifers.

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  7. OK...and might I add, I've been singing "La la la Prin-cess Bride" in my head since reading this yesterday! LOL :)

    "Tienda Ho" photo credit to Amber Guerra, thank you very much. Those two are STILL the best models ever ;D

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  8. Love those pictures! Are you kidding me??? Some of the best I've seen.
    Your friend tribute is really touching, too.
    You're a lucky ducky to have such good friends so close!

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  9. Friends like this are just priceless! Oh how it makes me miss my own "girls" and the wacky shenanigans we used get into. I love seeing your hairdos thru the ages -- too funny what we used to do to our bangs, eh?

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